Roblox Safety 101
Help get your child set up safely with a new platform or app, with this quick reference guide.
International ratings indicate a PG rating (Parental Guidance)
Not classified in New Zealand by Te Mana Whakaatu
What is it?
Roblox is not a single game, but a platform with millions of user-created games (called “experiences”) that players can explore, play, and create.
Players can jump between different games instantly (e.g. obstacle courses, roleplay, racing, simulations), buy items, upgrades, or features using in-game currency (Robux), or create their own games using Roblox Studio.
In fact each experience is made by other users, not Roblox itself, which means that the quality, content, and behaviour vary widely. Some games are designed for younger players, whereas others may include more mature themes or social interactions.
Roblox also functions as a social platform, where players have profiles and friends lists. Users can play with friends or join games with people they don’t know, and chat, interact, and socialise while playing.
For parents and caregivers, the key thing to understand is that Roblox is less like a single game and more like a mix of a streaming service, gaming platform, and social media space in one place.
Why it's popular
Tamariki and rangatahi enjoy Roblox because there's huge variety in the gaming options, there’s always something new to play. The platform allows users to:
- Play and chat with friends
- Create their own games and worlds
- Customise avatars and identities
- Progress, earn rewards, and unlock items
What to watch out for
Contact with strangers
Roblox offers the ability to message with other players including strangers, which increases the risk of online harms such as grooming or sextortion
- Talk to your young person about who they’re talking to and who they know in person versus online only. Talk about what your child can do if someone they don't know wants to start a conversation online.
Inappropriate content
Because games are user-created, there is a risk that some may expose your child to harmful or adult content, scary or inappropriate themes, romantic or suggestive roleplay, players behaving unpredictably or adult language and humour.
- Check out the games that your child is playing in for yourself, and encourage them to play with friends that they know in-person. Encourage them to leave games that feel uncomfortable or confusing, and to come and tell you about it.
Social pressure and behaviour
Some experiences inside games can involve roleplaying, pressure to act or behave a certain way, and conflict with other players.
- Talk about what feels OK and not OK in a game, and what some shared expectations are for online behaviour. Help them to recognise when something doesn't feel right socially, and what they could do in that situation.
Spending money (Robux)
Players are encouraged to buy items, upgrades or access and may find themselves spending repeatedly in small amounts.
- Create some shared epxectations early and agree if and when money can be spent in the. This helps to make spending intentional and not automatic or accidental.
Time and immersion
Like other online games, Roblox is designed to keep players engaged, with endless game potential (versus gaming loops), rewards and progression.
- Set some agreed expectations together about time spent online, when and where to have device-free time, and how to detach from the game even when it feels hard. Build awareness of their wellbeing online and check in on how they're feeling after they've finished playing.
5 minute safety settings
Sit together and work through settings to put some basic protections in place, and talk about why they're important.
These settings are designed to reduce contact with strangers, limit inappropriate content and protect privacy.
Note: Settings and menu options may look slightly different depending on your child’s device and account, but these controls are the most important to check.
Roblox safety settings work best when a parent account is linked to a child’s account.
Start by setting up a parent account to give you the most control over your child’s experience.
- Go to: https://www.roblox.com
- Create your own Roblox account (if you don’t already have one)
- Log in and go to "Settings → Parental Controls"
- Select "Add Parent / Link Account"
- Follow the steps to connect to your child’s account
This allows you to manage safety settings from your own account, control communication and content access and set limits or review activity.
Talk with your child about setting up the parent-linked account and why you're doing it to build trust and transparency
- Log in at: https://www.roblox.com
- Go to "Settings (gear icon) → Parental Controls"
- Select your child's account
- Go to "Content restrictions → Content maturity"
- Choose an age-appropriate level
This filters out more mature or unsuitable games (experiences)
- Log in at: https://www.roblox.com
- Go to "Settings (gear icon) → Privacy"
- Scroll to "Communications"
- Adjust:
- "Experience chat” → Friends or Restricted / Off
- “Direct chat / messaging” → Friends or Restricted / Off
This prevents or limits interaction with strangers
- Log in at: https://www.roblox.com
- Go to "Settings (gear icon) → Privacy → Communications"
Set
- “Who can join me?” → Friends or No one
- "Who can invite me to private servers?" → Friends or No one
This prevents unknown players joining their game. These options may be locked or simplified depending on your child’s age and whether a parent account is linked - so you may not see every option listed above.
Roblox uses an in-game currency called Robux, which players can spend on items, upgrades, and access to certain games. Spending is often designed to be quick and repeated, so it’s important to set expectations and controls early.
Option 1: Set spending restrictions (recommended)
- Log in at: https://www.roblox.com
- Go to "Settings → Parental Controls"
- Select your child’s account
- Look for "Spending Controls / Spending Restrictions"
- Set:
- Monthly spending limit, or
- Restrict purchases entirely
This helps prevent ongoing or impulse spending
Option 2: Remove or avoid saved payment methods
- Go to "Settings → Billing"
- Review saved:
- Credit cards
- PayPal accounts
- Remove any saved payment methods if not needed
This adds a natural pause before purchases
Option 3: Use gift cards instead of direct payments
- Purchase Roblox gift cards instead of linking a bank card
- Redeem them at: https://www.roblox.com/redeem
This keeps spending limited and predictable
What else can help?
Support your child to navigate Roblox safely...
- Help them to choose the right game and talk about the difference between playing with friends versus strangers
- Play and explore Roblox together (even briefly). Ask them to show you what games they enjoy and who they play with. This build trust and gives you some insights into their world without needing to monitor
- Help them recognise different types of games (creative, competitive, social, roleplay) and which they enjoy. Discuss the different pros and cons of the different game types, and which games might have the higher risk of contact from people they don't know in person.
- Talk about what's “pretend vs real”. Roleplay games can blur boundaries, so help them understand that not everything people say is real and that they don’t need to go along with scenarios in the game if it makes them feel uncomfortable, scared or 'yucky'.
- Help them practise leaving a game quickly. Roblox makes it easy to jump between games, so encourage leaving immediately if something feels off.
- Check in on trends by being curious and ask questions like “What’s everyone playing right now?” to stay up to date with how games in the platform are changing.
- Talk about game behaviours, and how Roblox and other online games have their own social norms. Help them to understand that not everyone plays fairly, and some people try to get reactions from others by harming their game. Equip them with the language to respond such as "I'm leaving this game" or "I'm not playing here anymore"
- Build their confidence of playing in online spaces by helping them to recognise when something feels 'off' and knowing what to do next if that happens - the goals is "I know how to handle this and I know who can go to for help"
Learn More
Roblox can be a creative, social, and engaging platform, but the experience varies widely depending on how it’s used. First steps for safe play means focusing on who your child is interacting with, what types of games they’re playing and how they feel during and after play.
With the right settings and ongoing conversations, Roblox can be a positive space to explore and create.
Find more information on staying safe on Roblox via the links below:
- Roblox Safety Center: https://about.roblox.com/safety





